hati seorang anak

asalamualaikum.... i'm very new to this so called blog... still at the stage of trying and learning... hope my friends will be able to assist me... cewah ckp omputeh ler pulak.. well like i said earlier.. still in the stage of learning... nver feel bored of learning.. wutever tht gives benefits... including language..so if anyone out there find faults wit my language.. feel free to correct it... no heart feelings....

well, hope u dont mind me using rojak language here.. i dont hv any specific topic to share ...but.... just a few minutes ago a chat mate of mine, a very young boy... told me how angry he was at his mum... he just came back from his college and found out his parcel.. posted by his friend..(a girlfriend).... was unwrapped without his knowledge... he was so upset and confronted his mum..cos he knew tht no one would dare to do so except his mum.. with a fiery face ( agaknya lah.... cos the way he told me the story his level of upsetness - ada ker istilah tu - was very2 high). He asked angrily why she did wut she did. She told him tht she was afraid tht the parcel might contained drugs. It made him double mad. He said unpleasant things to her and his mum got upset too... she even said..tht it would be better if he didnt come home rather than coming home and got mad. Then he left to the cybercafe and chat wit me...

well as a mum..i know how the lady felt and as a daughter of a mother... i also understand how he felt.. for me the mum has the right to be scared and protective..tht's a typical mum... no matter how old their children are..(even dh ganyut sekalipun) a mother still wants to protect their children... and as a son ... he has the right to be upset too.. he feels tht he's big enough to hv his own privacy and rights to stand for himself... the path met there and .. kebaaabooommm.... accident happend..both side were hurt.....

it's not easy to ease his pain and at the same time be firm towards his attitude to his mum.. so i suggested him to.. go back, hugs his mum..tells how much he loves her, and thanks her for unwrapping the parcel for him..saving his time and effort.. but gently asked her to let him learn to open his own parcel or he wont be able learn on how to do so the nxt time...

well, i guess the reverse psychology tht i suggested him did touch him.. he thnked me and left and he seemed to be happier than the moment he came to me earlier... i really hope e'thing is fine by now.... or..did he left because the cc was almost closed...he he he.. i'll find out later....

just sumthing to ponder here.. sumtimes we as adult hold our children's hand too hard when we take them to cross the road ...afraid tht they might run out to the road on their own and hurt themselvs..without realizing tht we ourselves had hurt their small snsitive palms due to the hard hold and it bleed accidntly....